Meeting Family and Sangolqui
Trip Start
Aug 29, 2008
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Trip End
May 29, 2009
Last Friday we met the families with whom we will be living for the next three and a half months. We spent the afternoon waiting in the lobby of a Country Club on the edge of Sangolqui. Come evening, families entered one at a time, our name was called as we joined them and sat for dinner. Before we were served, the students put on a short presentation about Canadian (and United States) culture. This included introductions, interactive camp songs and a line dance finale accompanied by yours truly on the banjo. It was about a half an hour total, and we only had about three days to prepare. We were able to extract a few laughs (regardless of our broken Spanish) and it seemed the families enjoyed getting to know our group a little better.
After finishing our performance I went to join my family at the dinner table. I sat with my host mother Irlanda, father Patricio and their two siblings Andres (5 years old) and Allison (9 years old). They were joined by Irlanda´s sister and her son. We spoke a lot about me: what Minnesota is like, how long I´ve been playing the banjo, why I´m interested in breakdancing as well as what I think of Ecuador and what there is to do in Sangolqui. Frankly, I had trouble wiping the stupid grin off my face. It was there partly because I felt so happy to be in the company of such nice people, and partly because I was so surprised that I could actually speak Spanish.
My host family has been so accommodating, always asking how I am, how my day is going and insisting ¨Estas en tu casa¨ (you are in your house) whenever I ask permission to do something. They (or perhaps I should say we) live in a quaint house only several blocks from downtown, about a ten minute walk to school and only blocks away from many of the other students. Their house is connected to another where Patricio´s brother, my host uncle, his wife and daughter live. Patricio is an architect and has his own office attached to the house, Irlanda works at home raising two adorable kids and cooking amazingly delicious food (I´ll have another entry where I will describe the diet here, it is way different than I thought it would be!)
Our first weekend spent in Sangolqui has been quite an introduction. We entered just in time for a large celebration: streets full of people, live music, cowboy parades and lots of beer.
My largest dose of culture shock so far came during the Fiesta del Torros. On Saturday afternoon we drove to the edge of town to a large plaza. The plaza was three stories tall, built in 3 days out of scrap pieces of wood, tied together with large pieces of blue cloth and packed with about 4 thousand people. In the center of the plaza was an enormous lawn upon which there was nothing but a 15 by 10 foot cage and a 10 foot by 10 foot wooden stage. One by one, bulls were released into the middle of the plaza allowed to run about in the middle. Besides the five cowboys who rode about in the center, there were about 100 bystanders from the crowd. Primarily drunk young men, these people jumped in the middle to test their bravery by running about, taunting the bull and seeing how close they could get without being tossed about violently by the horns of an angry bull. Some left with nothing more than more adrenaline in their veins and a drunken sense of accomplishment, others left with bruises, scars and other injuries for actually being caught.
As we arrived, we pushed through the thick crowd of people that surrounded the plaza, making our way to a rickety ladder and climbing to the second story with my host mother, aunt, brother, sister, cousins and their friends. We took a seat and watched as random people put their masculinity to the test, throwing garbage and rocks at enormous bulls and then running for either the cage, the stage or climbing up the inner wall of the plaza trying to escape the reach of the bull. Some strategies worked better than others, but I preferred mine: staying in the stands. One by one the cowboys would round-up the bull with their lassos, putting them back in their pen before releasing another larger, angrier bull. After about a half an hour we heard a crack, one of the lateral boards holding up the story above us split from the pressure. We quickly moved to another section of the Plaza while two young men secured a couple of 1x8 boards in a triangle shape to reinforce the cracked pillar. Once this small project was complete we calmly moved back to our seats and I tried not to think about it.
I was surprised at myself, it was a scene that I could not stop watching. About once every 15 minutes the bull would get a hold of someone; I found myself covering my mouth as my jaw dropped, unable to pry my eyes away from the scene, others screamed loudly. Some men would get up quickly afterwards, receive a cheer from their friends and continue to run about the center of the plaza, taunting the bull. Others ended unconscious and were carried to the side by a group of slightly more sober individuals. This festival continued for three days: Saturday, Sunday and Monday. Rumor has it that three people died on Saturday alone.
After finishing our performance I went to join my family at the dinner table. I sat with my host mother Irlanda, father Patricio and their two siblings Andres (5 years old) and Allison (9 years old). They were joined by Irlanda´s sister and her son. We spoke a lot about me: what Minnesota is like, how long I´ve been playing the banjo, why I´m interested in breakdancing as well as what I think of Ecuador and what there is to do in Sangolqui. Frankly, I had trouble wiping the stupid grin off my face. It was there partly because I felt so happy to be in the company of such nice people, and partly because I was so surprised that I could actually speak Spanish.
My host family has been so accommodating, always asking how I am, how my day is going and insisting ¨Estas en tu casa¨ (you are in your house) whenever I ask permission to do something. They (or perhaps I should say we) live in a quaint house only several blocks from downtown, about a ten minute walk to school and only blocks away from many of the other students. Their house is connected to another where Patricio´s brother, my host uncle, his wife and daughter live. Patricio is an architect and has his own office attached to the house, Irlanda works at home raising two adorable kids and cooking amazingly delicious food (I´ll have another entry where I will describe the diet here, it is way different than I thought it would be!)
Our first weekend spent in Sangolqui has been quite an introduction. We entered just in time for a large celebration: streets full of people, live music, cowboy parades and lots of beer.
Cowboy Desfila
My largest dose of culture shock so far came during the Fiesta del Torros. On Saturday afternoon we drove to the edge of town to a large plaza. The plaza was three stories tall, built in 3 days out of scrap pieces of wood, tied together with large pieces of blue cloth and packed with about 4 thousand people. In the center of the plaza was an enormous lawn upon which there was nothing but a 15 by 10 foot cage and a 10 foot by 10 foot wooden stage. One by one, bulls were released into the middle of the plaza allowed to run about in the middle. Besides the five cowboys who rode about in the center, there were about 100 bystanders from the crowd. Primarily drunk young men, these people jumped in the middle to test their bravery by running about, taunting the bull and seeing how close they could get without being tossed about violently by the horns of an angry bull. Some left with nothing more than more adrenaline in their veins and a drunken sense of accomplishment, others left with bruises, scars and other injuries for actually being caught.
As we arrived, we pushed through the thick crowd of people that surrounded the plaza, making our way to a rickety ladder and climbing to the second story with my host mother, aunt, brother, sister, cousins and their friends. We took a seat and watched as random people put their masculinity to the test, throwing garbage and rocks at enormous bulls and then running for either the cage, the stage or climbing up the inner wall of the plaza trying to escape the reach of the bull. Some strategies worked better than others, but I preferred mine: staying in the stands. One by one the cowboys would round-up the bull with their lassos, putting them back in their pen before releasing another larger, angrier bull. After about a half an hour we heard a crack, one of the lateral boards holding up the story above us split from the pressure. We quickly moved to another section of the Plaza while two young men secured a couple of 1x8 boards in a triangle shape to reinforce the cracked pillar. Once this small project was complete we calmly moved back to our seats and I tried not to think about it.
The parade
I was surprised at myself, it was a scene that I could not stop watching. About once every 15 minutes the bull would get a hold of someone; I found myself covering my mouth as my jaw dropped, unable to pry my eyes away from the scene, others screamed loudly. Some men would get up quickly afterwards, receive a cheer from their friends and continue to run about the center of the plaza, taunting the bull. Others ended unconscious and were carried to the side by a group of slightly more sober individuals. This festival continued for three days: Saturday, Sunday and Monday. Rumor has it that three people died on Saturday alone.


Comments
Hi from Shana!
Riahl~
Thanks for the blog updates--I am enjoying reading them! I especially found the Fiesta del Torros interesting--and somewhat disturbing! I have the same fascination with the 'running with the bulls' in Spain--kind of an awed horror! I am imaging you soaking up the warm weather in Equador as the seasons are changing here in Wisconsin (and I am already wearing my long underwear!), but I looked up your weather in Sangolqui, and it looks like it only getting about 60 degrees during the day where you are! I guess I thought it would be warmer... Your forcasts also call for rain and thunderstorms every night--is that typical weather for that region? Update your blog again when you can--I know the link to your site has made the rounds within the family!
Divertirse en Equador!
Dios esté con vosotros hasta que nos reunamos de nuevo!
From the uptown sideporch
As I write this, Mukina and I sit and smoke shisha while we listen to bluegrass and read your stories. It's a beautiful autumn day with a crisp wind and a warm sunlight: simply perfect.
We all miss you. I had a dream the other day that we were on tour. I woke up convinced it would happen, despite the many miles keeping the jams primarily in our heads. I'm already looking forward to having you back. It's a bit of a selfish notion, i know. Its similar to the feeling I had when my brother was gone. Although I am utterly convinced that you are exactly where you need to be, and I'm extremely proud to be your friend, you gotta' get your ass back here so we can crank out some tunes.
I'm also glad to hear you've busted out the jo to the public, establish yourself my friend, and show your Latin American friends what we do in the USA!!! Yaaaaah mountain music.
hey this is mukina... wow! you lucky toss-pot, in reading of your central american adventures i find my jaw unhinging creating a massive cave of awe in were my mouth should be. im sure you've been following the polls and things are getting pretty ruthless here on the political front, and am hoping you can cast your absentee vote. i recently got a job as a valet, jumping around minneapolis' various clubs, swanky high priced eateries and banquet halls driving escalades, mazaratis and bentlys while pulling down some pretty fair tips in the process. i recently had a visit from nat allister were he propositioned me to join him on a 40 mile religious trek through spain, i reluctantly passed. i was later visited by a one kellen kirchberg, and we've been planning some kind of in-to-the-wild-esque thing, but up until then it had been a little naive and scetchy. until he mentioned he had been researching this agro-tourism thing were you pick a country out of a list and a family takes you in and feeds you in exchange for working on there farm, all you need is the price of a plane ticket. so we decided on switzerland and the balls rolling, and yupp. have fun on your journey in the CENTER OF THE EARTH! .......bastard.
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