30 December, the Wedding - Ted's First Update
Trip Start
Dec 26, 2008
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Trip End
Feb 06, 2009
We are on Day 3 of the wedding. Every event has been a brilliant mish-mash of colours and food. On the evening of the first day, Tanek's aunt (the groom) put on a fabulous party at her house in Baroda. The setting was stunning with 200 people in the garden of the beautiful home. Tanvi wanted her guests to experience real Indian street food as it is meant to be the best example of Indian food. However, it is rarely available in restaurants as it is considered inferior to other examples of Inidan food. As the food on the streets can be a little dangerous to westerners, Tanvi had the caterers prepare their own version of it. All I can say is that I had third helpings. It was wonderful. I cannot tell you the name of a single dish but I enjoyed every one!
The second day included the Mehendi ceremony and lunch at the Mahi Valley Resort. We all piled onto a bus for a fascinating drive through Baroda and out into the country-side. It is mind-boggling to see a shiny new glass-covered Siemen's building next door to the typical "slum". Many people simply live in tents on the side of the road and together these tents form the slums of each city. Zero hygiene, no comforts but they exist. We were all shocked that we didn't run someone over as the bus barreled through crowds of locals on bikes, carts and scooters. The only thing that slowed our head-long journey was the obligatory cow wandering across the street! The lunch featured all the ladies getting henna'd hands and the gentlemen standing around self-consciously in our "funky tunics", as Martin designated the long tunics that we all wore. Tanvi had organized athletic and colourful traditional dancers to put on a show for the crowd. With a fantastic view across the river delta, it was a truly satisfying lunch.
The evening was a highlight that I will not forget. We were taken to the Lakshmi Palace for dinner and dancing. The Lakshmi Palace is the Maharaj of Gujarat's private palace, and is not open to tourists. It was only through the personal friendship of the bride and groom's parents with the Maharaj himself that were we able to have a guided tour and then party on the grounds with the Maharaj in attendance. The palace is a mix of Hindu, Muslim and Christian architecture built in the late 19th century. Every little while, I would pause with my drink halfway to my lips and gaze back at the building lit with hundreds of lights making it glow in the night sky. It's not every day that we are able to party like that!
The second day included the Mehendi ceremony and lunch at the Mahi Valley Resort. We all piled onto a bus for a fascinating drive through Baroda and out into the country-side. It is mind-boggling to see a shiny new glass-covered Siemen's building next door to the typical "slum". Many people simply live in tents on the side of the road and together these tents form the slums of each city. Zero hygiene, no comforts but they exist. We were all shocked that we didn't run someone over as the bus barreled through crowds of locals on bikes, carts and scooters. The only thing that slowed our head-long journey was the obligatory cow wandering across the street! The lunch featured all the ladies getting henna'd hands and the gentlemen standing around self-consciously in our "funky tunics", as Martin designated the long tunics that we all wore. Tanvi had organized athletic and colourful traditional dancers to put on a show for the crowd. With a fantastic view across the river delta, it was a truly satisfying lunch.
The evening was a highlight that I will not forget. We were taken to the Lakshmi Palace for dinner and dancing. The Lakshmi Palace is the Maharaj of Gujarat's private palace, and is not open to tourists. It was only through the personal friendship of the bride and groom's parents with the Maharaj himself that were we able to have a guided tour and then party on the grounds with the Maharaj in attendance. The palace is a mix of Hindu, Muslim and Christian architecture built in the late 19th century. Every little while, I would pause with my drink halfway to my lips and gaze back at the building lit with hundreds of lights making it glow in the night sky. It's not every day that we are able to party like that!


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Restaurants
Hey Ted and Michelle, glad to see you guys are having a great time! We completely forgot to give you guys a list of some of the great restaurants we went to in case you want to check them out. So here are a few:
Trishna in Mumbai - not very expensive but a little more pricey than the typical $3 meals - frequented by lots of foreigners in town on business - very good seafood - but don't order the peas unless you like feeling like you're on fire!
Delhi Darbar in Mumbai (close to Leopold's Cafe) - very good inexpensive meals - tons of food so you need a person to act as the 'food police' (that was my role) lest you order waaaayyy tooooo much 'cause it all sounds great on the menu! No alcohol.
La Reverie in Goa (near the Goan Heritage Hotel, between Calangute and Candolim Beach) - the setting here is absolutely stunning - it's all outdoor with beautiful lights and funky furniture. Definitely more pricey but with a nice bottle of wine and a great meal you'll still only pay about $30 each.
Spice in Goa (on the way back from Arnpur towards Calangute/Candolim - we went to the Saturday night bazaar to shop and stopped here on the way back) - very good inexpensive food, but no alcohol.
Brittos on Calagute Beach, Goa - there's a dance club next door and the restaurant is right on the beach. Very cool, and good local inexpensive food - but make sure you put lots of bug spray on! No alcohol.
Q'Ba in Connaught Place Circle, Delhi - very cool, funky, modern restaurant with modern international cuisine if you want a break from Indian food. Again, a bit more pricey but even with wine it's not more than about $30-40 each.
Have a great time and keep us posted on the wedding festivities and your travels!