Hey Susie - that is Chiang Mai - he said Chiang Rai
He he
Anyway - the recent protests and crackdown in central Burma don't seem to have changed the situation in the outer areas of Burma much - ie. the civil war that has been going on for the last 40 years or so is still going on.
That doesn't effect Chiang Rai.
It is safe for Americans.
Transport options from BKK include:
a bus.
a train to either Chiang Mai or Lampang and then a bus.
flights
Accom - lots of options. But I am in a rush so i will tell you later. Or look up the Tips on Thailand - during a discussion about dentists I listed a whole bunch of accom available in Chiang Rai.
Good luck.